An old zen story tells of a man whose wife, on hear deathbed, begged him never to go to another woman. a few months after her death, the man fell in love and became engage. immediately, he was haunted by his first wife’s ghost. every evening he chided him for disloyalty, describing gifts the man had given his fiancé, and repeating details from their conversation. she must be real ! at last the man visited and old zen master, who suggested, " take a handful of soybeans and demand this gold tell you how many beans you hold ". that night, when confronted with the question, the ghost disappeared without answering, and never returned. the ghost didn’t now the answer because the man didn’t now the answer. she was an illusion !
we too, can become similarly convince of the reality of things we have created in our minds, when they only ghost of our attachment, guilt and desires..
